Tag: engaging youth
In favor of poetic education
March 10th, 2011
What makes for good poetry makes for good education.
Consider the following similarities:
1. Excellent poetry motivates the reader to want to know more.
2. The poet engages his or her reader by doing less.
3. Poems leave large margins of space.
4. Poetry confuses the reader at first, encouraging him or her to pursue a deeper understanding.
5. I have to work to understand the true meaning of a poem.
6. Only the poet’s essential message makes it to paper—no extraneous details!
7. When I finally arrive at an understanding of the poem, my understanding is personal, meaningful, and has the power to change how I see things.
New Education Transformation Videos
February 22nd, 2011
The University of Oregon’s Substance Abuse Prevention Program sponsored the production of this video on making prevention education—all education, for that matter—personal. These videos walk you through each of the three phases of the personalized prevention process: Crystallize, Personalize, and Relationalize (C.P.R.).
For learning to be powerful and life-changing it must be personal. These videos walk you through three ingredients that must be in place to move educational approaches from abstract and impersonal to concrete, personal, and life-changing.
I want to thank the University of Oregon’s Substance Abuse Prevention Program for this opportunity. Bryan and Sabine, thank you for your help planning, filming, and formatting the footage.
Part 1: Introduction to Personalized Prevention Education
Part 2: C.P.R. A Meta-Curriculum for Personalized Prevention Education
Part 3: Crystallize Your Message
Part 4: Personalize Your Methods
Part 5: Relationalize Your Approach
Part 6: Get Away from Group-think
Part 2 of my interview with The Los Angeles Examiner
February 19th, 2011
Communication, respect and trust are 3 important issues when dealing with teens. In Part 2 of our Relating With Teens interview, author and speaker Andrew F. Robinson discusses these issues. Although Andrew is based in Oregon, his relevant, practical insights speak to the heart of anyone seeking to make a positive difference in others’ lives. He travels to speak and work with groups here in Los Angeles and all over North America.
EBB: How can educators and parents reestablish a better form of communication with their teens?
AFR: Cultivate curiosity! Good communication flows from genuine curiosity. Here are a few elements I explore in The Teen Age.
1. Say less—this creates space and capacity for connection with teens.
2. Ask good questions—a good question is one that produces more questions.
3. Listen—seek to understand the meaning behind the oft-confusing ways teens communicate.
Notice the natural rhythm that takes place in conversations with people we trust. Such communication serves to connect us with others because there is a natural give and take. These three elements help us create similar rhythms with teens.
EBB: How do we get teens to return respect?
AFR: In Put Your Boots On, one of the 40 reflections in The Teen Age, I liken relating to teens to an occupation. When we don’t show up for a job, when we cut corners, we lose the respect of others and may lose our job. Consistency is a key ingredient to fostering mutual respect with teens.
EBB: What do teens want their parents and educators to do? (or not do?)
AFR: Though the particulars may vary, all teens would like adults to do the following:
1. See them—demonstrate the same fascination you would exhibit for a partially buried treasure
2. Respect them as people regardless of their decisions
3. Furnish fair, clear, unapologetic guidelines and expectations
4. Do not try to be their buddy, or so-called, Best Friend Parent
5. Connect with them
Over the past decade I’ve conducted numerous interviews with teens. One thing in particular that may surprise adults is the degree to which they want adults to share their own past with them. I explore each of these in my book. Your readers can also watch The 6Teens Project, collection of free videos on our website in which I interview teens about these topics.
EBB: What conditions are necessary for teens and adults to better connect?
AFR: The Teen Age contains several reflections that address this question. In short, the essential conditions are generous amounts of time, trust and interaction. All three are necessary. Compromise any of these conditions and we will weaken our connection with teens.
For more information, write to Andrew at: andrew@peoplechangepeople.com.
